Who and How:
The 30 Shamanic Questions were originally designed to be given one
day at a time for 30 consecutive days. A sacred agreement was entered
into by two individuals who I refer to as shamanic co-journeyers. The intent
of the agreement was to provide the co-journeyer answering the 30 questions
a sense of safety and honoring, which was provided by the co-journeyer
holding space. The co-journeyer holding space was a “graduate” of the 30
questions, meaning they had already successfully completed answering the
30 Shamanic Questions.
The two co-journeyers agreed to connect daily until the questions
were finished. Occasionally it was not possible to finish
within the 30 day time frame. This was acceptable as long as there
was a legitimate reason. This process is not intended to be dogmatic
or rigid. It does, however, provide efficient, disciplined, daily
support to the process of major change in one’s life. Unless
there is a heart-felt commitment the process will not bear fruit.
When I worked the questions with one friend, we ended up doing
part of it via email while she was traveling in England. She is
one of the intrepid souls I referred to in the dedication of this
book; as she was receiving these questions from me she was simultaneously
working them with two other people – one in Iowa and one
in North Carolina. Another time I worked the questions while on
vacation at Disney World in Florida, while the friend I co-journeyed
with lived in Maui. We used a combination of phone conversations,
voice mail and email to complete the process.
It is important to be truly committed to The 30 Shamanic Questions
process whether you are giving or receiving the questions. Like
most things in life you will only receive back as much as you
put into the process. I have heard of many innovative ways that
people have found to work together including one lady who lived
in England and did all 30 questions via email with her friend
in the United States. Several therapists have begun to use the
questions with clients, giving them several to answer one day
at a time until the next prearranged appointment. A few people
have passed the question they have answered the previous day onto
someone else who was a day behind them in answering the questions.
People have made this journey in all kinds of combinations
such as friend to friend, spouse to spouse, parent to child, sibling
to sibling, employee to employer. There are therapists who have
been open minded enough to receive the questions from their clients.
I know of one journeyer who worked the questions with two of her
dear friends simultaneously, a married couple, via three-way telephone
conferencing. There has even been discussion about starting weekly
meetings to discuss The 30 Shamanic Questions.
The 30 Shamanic Questions not only appeal to, but also “work”
for, people from all walks of life. A few examples of the diversity
of individuals who have co-journeyed through this powerful process
are: an attorney from Oregon; a factory worker from Des Moines,
Iowa; a master electrician from Toledo, Ohio; a caterer from Kentucky;
an addictions counselor from North Carolina, a psychologist from
Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania; a psychiatrist from Washington state;
a grandmother from Portland, Oregon; a psychotherapist and tantra
teacher from Atlanta, Georgia; a guide to stately homes from England;
two horsewomen from Dahlonega, Georgia; a housewife from Missouri;
a corporate manager from Kansas City; a house painter and horticulturist
from Atlanta; a real estate agent from Georgia; a businessman
and entrepreneur from Georgia. They range in age from early 20’s
to their late 60’s. Among them are Christians, Jews and
Buddhists as well as worshipers of the Goddess, Nature, or New
Age beliefs. Some people are agnostic; others feel a direct connection
to their Higher Powers. Several have been involved with 12 step
recovery programs, such as Alcoholics Anonymous, Alanon or Co-dependent
Anonymous. Several had worked with a counselor or therapist on
personal issues. For some it was their first time engaging in
any kind of psycho-spiritual process.
It truly did not seem to matter if they were male or female, gay
or straight, young or old, where they were from, what they did
for a living, or what religious beliefs they held. All these so-called
differences were simply unimportant when it became time to begin
the journey of The 30 Shamanic Questions. The reports of the lives
that have been changed, the healing's that have taken place and
the love that has been shared between so many individuals who
have had the courage to “to change the things they can”
touches my heart beyond words!
This book now offers the journey to a larger audience. In so doing
I would like to humbly offer some suggestions as to how this process
might work best for all concerned.
Other Ways to Work the Questions:
1) If you prefer to work these questions with a seasoned journeyer,
you may contact a graduate of the process through the Venus Rising
Institute of Shamanic Healing Arts. Email us at venusrising@shamanicbreathwork.org
or call 828-631-2305.
2) You could take this book to your counselor or therapist and
ask if they would be willing to assist you through the process.
3) You could start a 30 Shamanic Questions study group. Go to
the website for directions on setting up a group.
Special Note to Shamanic Journeyers:
This journey is not meant to be taken alone. The spirit of unconditional
love and acceptance that we access by working this process with
another person can be one of the greatest healing experiences
we will ever encounter in this lifetime.
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